Setting boundaries can often trigger discomfort or resistance in others, especially those with certain personality disorders, such as narcissistic, borderline, or manipulative tendencies. For individuals with these traits, boundaries challenge their need for control, validation, or emotional regulation. They may see healthy boundaries as a threat to their sense of power or an infringement on their ability to manipulate situations for their benefit. This resistance can manifest as pushback, guilt-tripping, or even gaslighting.

However, it's important to understand that this response is not about you—it's about their inability to respect or understand the need for boundaries. When you set clear limits, you are simply protecting yourself, and while it may trigger discomfort in others, it's a vital step in creating healthy, respectful relationships. By maintaining your boundaries, you're also helping these individuals learn that their behavior does not define your worth or the space you need for healing."